Getting Started

Overwhelmed with where to begin? You’re not alone?

Why It Helps to Plan Early

Many families wait until a crisis — a fall, a hospital stay, or a sudden change in health — before considering care. While understandable, planning ahead allows you to make informed decisions without pressure.

Why early planning matters:

  • More choice and flexibility: You can explore all available care options before urgency limits decisions.

  • Clarity around personal wishes: Your loved one has time to express their preferences about care, lifestyle, and future plans.

  • Reduced family stress: Avoid misunderstandings and rushed choices during emotional moments.

  • Financial and legal readiness: Organize important documents and understand costs early.

  • A stronger support network: Identify trusted providers, resources, and local services before they’re urgently needed.

First Steps Checklist

Getting started doesn’t mean doing everything at once. This simple checklist will help guide your next steps — no matter where you are in the process.

1. Observe and Reflect

  • Notice changes in mood, memory, movement, or daily routines

  • Ask yourself: What tasks seem harder for my loved one lately?

2. Start the Conversation

  • Talk with your loved one and other family members

  • Keep it open, respectful, and non-pressuring (see Talking Tips below)

3. Explore Care Options

  • Learn about in-home care, community programs, assisted living, and more

  • No pressure to decide yet — just become familiar with what’s available

4. Look Ahead

  • Begin thinking about legal paperwork, finances, and preferences

  • Consider who will help manage care decisions in the future

5. Reach Out for Support

  • Visit our Resources & Support page for guides, helplines, and trusted services

    Know you don’t have to do this alone.

Community Connections

Talking Tips

One of the most common challenges families face is knowing how to start the conversation. It can feel awkward, emotional, or even overwhelming.

That’s why we’ve created a dedicated guide to help.

Need help starting the conversation? Read our full article:
How to Talk to Your Parent About Accepting Help

Sometimes, just having someone listen makes all the difference. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, unsure where to start, or simply need a friendly voice — we’re here.

Reach out to us any time. Whether it’s a question, a concern, or just a chat, you don’t have to go through it alone.