10 Questions to Ask When Choosing a Care Home for Your Parents

Choosing a care home for a loved one is never easy. It’s a decision filled with emotion, responsibility, and often, time pressure. Knowing the right questions to ask can help you feel more confident and ensure your parent receives the compassionate care they deserve.

10 Key Questions to Ask

  1. What level of care do you provide?
    Understand whether the facility offers independent living, assisted living, memory care, or nursing care.

  2. How do you personalize care for each resident?
    Great homes tailor routines, activities, and care to the individual.

  3. What are the staff qualifications and ratios?
    Ask about staff certifications, training, and how many caregivers are available per resident.

  4. Can we speak with current residents or families?
    Firsthand feedback gives you an honest look into daily life at the facility.

  5. What activities and programs are available?
    Social and recreational opportunities contribute to quality of life and emotional well-being.

  6. How are medical emergencies handled?
    Clarify procedures, hospital partnerships, and whether medical staff is on-site 24/7.

  7. What’s included in the cost—and what’s extra?
    Ask for a detailed breakdown to avoid surprise fees.

  8. How is food prepared and what dietary options are available?
    Good nutrition is essential, and meals should be both nourishing and enjoyable.

  9. How do you support residents emotionally?
    Mental health, social connection, and dignity are just as important as physical care.

  10. Can we visit anytime?
    Flexible visiting policies help you stay involved in your parent’s life.

You’re not just choosing a place for your parent to live—you’re choosing a team to help care for someone you deeply love. Trust your instincts, ask the tough questions, and know that it’s okay to take your time.

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